Last night I was “shopping” in my closet, looking for something to wear. We were supposed to wear pink, because one of the groups at school is promoting a Body Image Awareness and Acceptance campaign this week.
I found a pink sweater that I haven’t worn in over a year, because even though the tag says it’s my size, the fit is close to the body, and I haven’t liked the way it looked on me. I thought I’d give it a try, and while it was still hugging my curves, it wasn’t squeezing them anymore.
Then I spotted some wide-legged knit pants that were popular a few years ago. I’ve kept them in my wardrobe rotation because they’re comfortable (like wearing sweats or pjs), and they’re really flattering on me. They help any outfit look a bit more dressed up.
And then I was looking for something to add a little pizazz to the outfit, and I remembered that a dress I bought had a slim, patent-leather belt that I’ve never worn. Even though I have an hourglass figure, and I should be emphasizing my smaller (in comparison) waist, I have never really worn belts. I really like the way they look on other people, but I never thought they looked that good on me. I was wrong.
I decided to wear boots to give the look a bit of an edge and tights so that the boots didn’t look strange and also for their control top properties. Plus, the weather report called for rain today, but it’s actually a nice, sunny day outside. Still, the control top properties are worth the added layer.
To top the outfit off, I added a beret. Not as much for the fashion aspect as for the I-should-really-wash-my-hair-today-but-I-woke-up-too-late-this-morning aspect.
The result? Judge for yourself:
I think I look pretty good. When I look at the photo I don’t pick apart all of the “flaws,” I celebrate how happy I feel in this outfit. And I’m proud of myself for stepping out of my normal jeans and a sweater “uniform” that I’ve worn all winter long. In a way, I guess I’ve really embodied the Body Image Awareness message of loving yourself as you are. Even though I’m hoping to completely transform my body through weight loss, I’m glad I can embrace and accept it for the way it looks now, and make the most of it with nice outfits.
Plus taking the time to choose and put together an outfit makes me feel like I’m taking the time to care for myself. When I look better, I feel better. And the image that I project to the outside world has a lot to do with the way I feel on the inside. And all that positivity is bound to show up in my goals on the scale.
Added bonus? I have gotten a TON of compliments today. From students and colleagues alike. It really made me feel special. Talk about an ego boost! 🙂
What outfit makes you feel great when you wear it?
You look great!
I bought a new t-shirt and jeans. Very simple, but I felt good in it all day. It was amazing to me how feeling good about the way you look, helps you stay on track.
It so does!
You look FANTASTIC! And even better is how POSITIVE your self-image sounds in this post – I’m so glad!
Thank you. You’re so sweet for always celebrating my successes. I really appreciate your support!
You look great! And you’re right, the belt looks fabulous and is a great way to show off you waist!
Thanks, Stephanie! I try to wear tops that show off my waist, but the belt really does help complete the look. I liked it so much that I bought another, wider belt online today. 🙂
Hmm… the outfit is missing something. Hmm… what would make it look better? Hmm…
After a lot of pondering, I finally realized — your wrists look bare. The perfect addition will be the new bracelet for 10%!! It’ll be yours before you know it, esp since feeling good about yourself pays off in so many ways! It’s just easier to eat better, move more, smile more, etc.
Too funny! I am hoping to wear it proudly soon!!
You look so cute!!! Good job and great outfit!
The belt makes this work perfectly. You look so happy..as always
Cute! I need a wardrobe make over. I’ve fallen into a slump!!