Throughout the month of December, I’ll be participating in #reverb13: Reverb is a way to reflect on the past year and project into the next year with a prompt a day for 31 days. December is the perfect time to reflect on 2013 and start to create intentions for 2014.
Day 5: Challenge
Did you take on a new challenge? What was it? Is there are challenge you deliberately avoided? What do you want to do to challenge yourself in 2014?
The biggest challenge I faced and overcame in 2013 was meeting the weight loss requirement for my surgery. It took me over 2 1/2 years to lose the weight – persistence and perseverance were key. I failed so many times, but I never allowed those failures to get the better of me for too long. Through lots of ups and downs, on the scale and mentally, I finally just decided to stop making excuses and start following the steps I knew would work.
In my career, I have taken on the challenge of teaching a totally new class – AVID. It meant a commitment of four years to follow my cohort of students from freshmen year through graduation. It meant adding another prep – I teach four very different classes – English 3 honors, journalism, yearbook, and AVID. (Most teachers teach two preps, maybe three). It meant spending a lot more time prepping for this entirely new class, which meant my work life became a lot busier. It also meant that I had to work with freshmen, who require a whole new level of patience to deal with students who are squirmy and silly and completely fun. Although there have been moments where I’ve wondered if all the added time and work were worth it, ultimately, when I see the impact I’m having on the students’ lives, I know it is.
I’ve also challenged myself to start running. I very recently (just last week) began the C25K program, and while it has been physically challenging, it’s not impossible, as it has been in the past. I love moving my body in this whole new way, and while I’m not breaking any records in terms of speed, I’m breaking through so many boundaries personally. It’s exciting!
In 2014, one of my main challenges is to explore new hobbies. I’ve focused for so long on weight loss, and while I still have a ways to go to get to my goals in that area, now that I’ve got it “down,” I want to start focus my energies on new areas of my life. I’ve been so single-minded for so long in my personal life that I’m not sure what I might end up getting into, but I think that’s the fun of it. The ideas I have are all things that take me out of the house and get me meeting new people:
- Taking an Italian conversation class. I’m so into my heritage in all other aspects, and I think learning the language is an important next step.
- Joining a local run club. Their program that lasts 28 weeks, has Saturday group runs, and a running schedule to follow during the week.
- Reading more books, and maybe joining a book club. This year I’ve been absolutely awful at reading books, even though I love to read, so I’m thinking that if I had a deadline and the expectation of discussing the book on a certain date, that would help. I need to find out where I can find book clubs meeting in my area.
- Taking some sort of art journaling/scrapbooking class that will tap into my creative side.
- A dance class would be a great way meet people, do something physical, and have a lot of fun.
I’m interested in seeing what other challenges I find myself facing in 2014.
FYI, an Italian conversation class was where I met my husband! And one of my bridesmaids and best friends ever was someone who I met through my running group. As for book clubs, if you can’t find one you like, poll your friends to see about staring one — my book club started in 2003 as a group of attorneys or attorney spouses and while some members have moved away and we’ve added others, the core group is still there and I love it — but I’m still not good at always finishing by the deadline… Too funny that many of your 2014 options are things I love.
This is good to know!
I tried starting a book club with my friends, but we ended up spending all our time talking about our lives and forgetting the book. Which was fun, but still left me wanting to discuss books. Hopefully I can find something.